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Hopefull72   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

Trying to stay positive and think only good thoughts. Like for instance, my other half made it to the third round of tests/interviews at BMW, would be an awesome opportunity for a "career" not just a job.... I never knew how hard it was to find used car parts on older cars, like tires.... checked the local classifieds but still looking, will find some I'm sure. Hope that everyone out there is trying stay upbeat and positive, you are all in my prayers and thoughts... oh yeah, does anyone know if there are "people" that help with car repair assistance maybe? ty ty ty.... thoughts n prayers n blessings to all :-)

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Hopefull72   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

Haven't chatted or exchanged comments with anyone on this site but I still feel as if I know a lot of the people/families that have posted on here....I have said my prayers, not only for myself but for all of you as well. Got a lot of tips and "go to" advice just by reading the comments and posts and it is really appreciated. They came and repossessed our car Saturday morning and tomorrow is our last day before our things get put out ( or whatever they do with it). I'm trying to look at this like a new beginning or a chance to completely start over but in the back of my mind I know that this is the scariest thing I've ever been faced with. We made some extra money posting odds and ends on Craigslist and that will help with a rental truck and a storage unit for at least the next month. My girls have gone to visit their father in another state for at least a month so that gives us time to get everything back in order and I'm actually pretty positive that we really can too. My parents have an extra room that we are going to stay in just to save up a couple of weeks pay (it broke my heart to ask them, this is when I'm supposed to be taking care of them not the other way around) but we do what we have to I guess. So I'm gonna hope for the best, stay focused and not think about what I should've, could've or didn't do anymore, thats behind me and it does nothing but bring me down. My heart goes out to everyone who finds misfortune and I hope and pray that you make it through it smiling and still sane....... God Bless You Guys and Thanks again ♥

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Hopefull72   in reply to Hopefull72   on

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Running out of time and tears...

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Can he really do this???????

So we get the rule to Vacate, he tells us that during the 10 days we need to clear room by room as fast as possible so he can paint and in that same breath he tells our a/c is broken and he's disconnecting it and he did just that!!!! We've never had the first issue with it being broken, I think that because our utilities are included that he's feeding his authoritarian ego by making us really suffer in 98 degree weather..... and it is. LOL... I have been here for almost 6 yrs without being more than 5 day late ever...... Im trying to be mature about this but I just wanna throw rocks at this man lol....... Someone, Anyone.... Heck EVEN YOU!!!          Tell me something.... advice, opinion..... how to plot revenge....anything

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Eviction help

Can anyone tell me there is a way to stop an eviction once a rule to vacate has been hand delivered in South Carolina?

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Hopefull72   in reply to Starshine   on

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You've really put a lot of time and effort into trying to help us all.... You are truly an angel... thanks
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Wow, not sure where to start. I've never done this sort of thing before. Monday I received a Rule to vacate from my landlord. I have no job, no car and no money. I have two beautiful preteen/teen girls who I would give my last breath for and a great man in my life who has stepped up to the plate when their own father wouldn't. We had to fork out $1600.00 for a transmission in his car a few months ago. He works his heart out but we were barely getting by before that. We ended up getting a title loan because we were backed into a corner. He was laid off from his job for the past two weeks, he goes back to work this Monday but the damage is done, we're $700 behind on rent and have been evicted. We have until the 9th to come up with a new place to live or settle this with our landlord. I've called every place I could find information on and no one has funding right now... Where do I go? What do I tell my girls? I feel like a complete failure as a parent and spouse!!

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